FIRE. WATER. KING.

3 MONTH ONE ON ONE TRAINING FOR MEN TO:

✅ Build mental resilience.

✅ Develop emotional Intelligence.

✅ Become the leader you were born to be.

As men, we’re born to lead.

The full scope of leadership potential comes alive when the inner qualities of fire and water are balanced.

So what’s this fire and water you’re waffling on about Kingy? Because I’m pretty sure I don’t have a pool or a burning blaze anywhere in my body!

Glad you asked! Here it is….

MASTER THE FIRE OF THE MIND

Most of the time we run around hot-headed and our out of control minds have a greater tendency to scold (ourselves and others) more than bring a life-giving warmth. Mastering the fire in the mind can be seen like this -

  • Develop and refine awareness
    Aka learn how to create an inner sense of space and clarity so you don’t feel overwhelmed and bogged down by the pressures of life and you can see as clear as a white bellied sea eagle knowing exactly what to do and when! 

  • Build discernment
    Know when to sit back and be passive and when to act, when to fight and when to allow

  • Take control of your mindset, focus, self talk and creativity.

  • The fluctuations and cycles of your mindset will give you your unique experience of life; your mind can either work for you or against you.

  • Become less reactive, more conscious, patient and present  

MASTER THE WATER OF EMOTIONS 

A lot of ourselves find ourselves cold-hearted and emotionally shut down. This leads to a life that is absent of intimacy both in relationships and spiritually. Mastering the waters of emotions is when the heart is open and the inner river can flow, bringing a soothing and peace to the self and those you care about. It’s about -

  • Develop deep emotional intelligence 

  • Learn the art of emotional regulation 

  • Release the past that burdens you in the present 

  • Have you emotions work for you rather than against you - this means learning how to minimise blind emotional reactions and increase emotional fitness by growing emotions of the heart, like compassion, care, kindness and courage.

LEAD WITH THE HEART OF A KING  

  • Lead your own inner life effectively first… 

  • Make your life not about what you get as king but how you can serve and what you can give 

  • Lead your life under the guidance of a higher power that you submit to

A MAN’S HEART….

In a man’s raw heart lives the desire to lead his life, like a king.

This King is both a warrior and a lover.

Both strong and poetic. 

With 2 prominent desires of a mission to fight for and a lover to yearn for. 


If we haven’t mastered the qualities of fire and water within our emotions and mind we will find that either the warrior or the poet have been repressed, which leaves us with a society of men that are out of balance!


This leaves us with men that are either:

  • Too emotionally focused
    (Overly sensitive, disengaged, avoidant, lacking resilience, leadership, passion and void or being resolute),

    These men are scared of their own power and what it might do to them or their loved ones

  • Too mind-focused
    (Over ambitious, emotionally disconnected, excessively driven, closed hearted, ruthless, lacking empathy, unable to deeply listen to their beloved)

    These men are scared of weakness and what it might cause them to look like

    We are either scared of being too powerful or being too weak.

    Sometimes both.

A King is both a warrior and a poet. 

Courageous and loving. 

He knows his power and uses love as the driving force behind the power. 

He knows his weakness is comfortable in his vulnerability, understanding that through the depths of his surrender he opens to a higher power. 

“My weakness becomes a portal for the God’s power” - 2 Corinthians 12:9 

“Be men of courage, be strong, and do everything in love” - Corinthians 16:13


It’s my MISSION here to awaken a new breed of men.

This often twisted culture - void of initiation practices - is littered with grown men running around still acting like boys. Men not knowing how to offer deep, tender, care for the their wives and children. Men not knowing how to get out of the trap of their very real emotional experiences that cause them to withdraw. Men who can’t control their aggression and feed off having people be scared of them. Men who may just go through their whole life without ever truly sharing their raw and beautiful heart with anyone. Men who struggle to clearly, articulately and productively communicate with their wives.

A BATTLE TO FIGHT FOR

You’re born to battle. You are created with a warrior spirit in your heart. You come alive when you HAVE to.

As boys we all, unconsciously made the battle one against others and against our own emotions.

If we felt trapped, victimised, unjustly blamed, under-stimulated, unchallenged, overpowered or wounded in anyway, we carry those emotions around behind the veil of what we present to the world.

The YOU that you present to the world isn’t YOU at all.

The real you is beating at the door of your heart, from the inside, dying to get out.

Those very emotions that often we do so well to ignore, become the very foundational structures that become our M.O. we often just don’t know it!

“Our suppressed emotions return to us as our fate” - Carl Jung.

As we grow into the men we were born to be, and win back the fullness of heart, we must dive head first into the raw, dark deep ocean of everything we hold within, to develop the greatest gifts a man, a leader, a warrior, can hold.

Emotional Fitness. Clear mindedness. Compassionate leadership.

The battle, then, is no longer against yourself but FOR something bigger than yourself.

Then, my friends, we come alive. One of many initiations complete!

HOW?

Fire Water King is a 3 month program where we meet weekly for about 60 minutes.

We can meet over the phone or in person. For this training, in person is better if possible.

We will systematically work through your mind, emotions, heart and life to bring out, fully into life, the authentic, powerful, loving man that you can be.

The tools we will use to do the above are traditional meditation related practices (this includes breathwork, contemplation and emotional release work) and positive neuroplacticity (this is when we create good and lasting change in the very structure of our brain).

During the time we work together I will be in your corner and rooting for your success. This includes message or WhatsApp support outside of session times.

As you’ll see below, included are some extra courses for free that will be epic support material for the work we do.

There’s also an option to include an overnight, 2 day, coaching adventure as part of the program

LET’S WORK TOGETHER!

You bloody legend.
Thanks for reading this far!
If you feel like you’re the kind of person that wants to dive in, do the work, restore your heart and awaken the leader within, then let’s do it. I’m all in and feel super honoured to get to support you.

INVESTMENT

3 MONTH PROGRAM
$3,500 AUD (+GST or Aus Residence)

Price includes:
Free access to Stillness (usually $300)
AND
Free access to Hearts on Fire (usually $1750)


OR


THE ADVENTURE PACKAGE
$4,500 (plus GST for Aus)

We can take an overnight hiking or kayak wilderness adventure as a part of the program.
If you’re interested in this one we can chat about the possibility and potential destinations when you reach out.

APPLY HERE

Fill out the application from below and I’ll be in touch either by phone or email as soon as I can.

If we haven’t met before I in no way expect you to just join this training without getting to know me and exploring if this is a good choice for you. So I am super happy to have a chat so we can get to know each other and make sure it’s a fit for both of us.

Add your details below and I’ll reach out and we can take it from there.